Reviewed by Jamie Michele for Readers' Favorite

You Can’t Take Them With You by Megan Bannon is the author's memoir following a breast cancer diagnosis. Her treatment plan, led by Dr. Abramson, included chemotherapy, immunotherapy, a double mastectomy, and radiation. Bannon underwent biopsies, genetic testing, and a series of emotionally and physically grueling medical interventions. She and her husband named the tumor “Arnold,” attempted humor during harrowing moments, and involved their children with age-appropriate honesty. Encounters with fellow patients like Tom and support from friends, strangers, and family are shared, but so too are her dealings with unsolicited advice, chemo-induced menopause, a child's broken wrist, a “Grief Tourist” ex-boyfriend, and insurance issues, all while managing her career and identity. Bannon ultimately celebrated her N.E.D. status with lobster, laughter, a “Not Dead Yet” cake, and plans to share it all in this book.

You Can’t Take Them With You by Megan Bannon is a refreshingly candid and really witty memoir that tackles the difficulties of a cancer diagnosis and treatment with remarkable clarity and grace. Bannon’s storytelling is sharp and intelligent in a mix of raw honesty with well-timed humor that never undermines the gravity of her experience. Her ability to find moments of levity—the standout to me being the turning of a wig into a party game—offers a powerful reminder of resilience. The writing is conversational and genuinely feels like a chat with a friend, and, as someone who lost her mother to cancer at a very, very young age, I can appreciate the everyday absurdities and tender connections that define life in crisis. I live in England, so the health care bureaucracy was really eye-opening. Also, note to self: no adult coloring book gifts! I could probably get on board with a KISS-themed casket, though. Overall, this is a deeply personal yet universally human memoir that is wonderfully told. Very highly recommended.