Finding a Mate in the Seven C's

A Guidebook to Recovering from the Pain of a Lost Relationship, Discover...

Non-Fiction - Relationships
80 Pages
Reviewed on 12/08/2024
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Reviewed by Carol Thompson for Readers' Favorite

Finding a Mate in the 7 C’s by John O. Taylor is a practical guide for anyone navigating the often choppy waters of relationships, particularly after experiencing the difficulties of divorce or heartbreak. Written as a metaphorical journey across the seas, Taylor introduces seven fundamental principles—Competency, Chemistry, Compatibility, Communication, Character, Casting the Net, and Commitment—that serve as a compass and lifeboat for those searching for meaningful connections. Taylor shares his experiences of overcoming the pain of an unexpected divorce, using his story as a relatable framework to guide readers through their journeys of self-discovery and relationship-building. His honest insights, references to faith, and enduring wisdom from figures like Shakespeare and the Bible give the book emotional and practical depth.

Each of the seven principles is thoughtful, offering readers a structured approach to better understanding themselves and their needs in a partner. From “Competency,” which emphasizes self-improvement and authenticity, to “Casting the Net,” which encourages proactive efforts to find a compatible mate, John O. Taylor’s insights are inspiring and empowering. The book doesn’t shy away from complex topics, such as forgiveness and overcoming past trauma, but tackles them with compassion and a focus on growth. The conversational tone and metaphors, such as navigating stormy seas and seeking safe harbors, are engaging. Including exercises and reflection questions at the end of each chapter encourages readers to actively engage with the material and apply it to their lives. Finding a Mate in the 7 C’s is a self-discovery and personal growth guide. Taylor’s blend of personal experience, spiritual insight, and actionable advice makes this book valuable for those seeking to navigate love with intention and confidence.

Frank Mutuma

In Finding a Mate In The Seven C’s by John O. Taylor, various life skills such as competence and our uniqueness are explored. In this life, it is important to have a group of friends to spend quantity and quality time with. Friends reflect who we are. Other concepts of importance to consider are things like family connections, which support the idea of unconditional love and enhance stability in one’s life. Physical attractiveness is important, but people should focus on their strengths and try as much as possible to minimize their weaknesses. Apart from physical attractiveness, it is also important for people to check on other things like character when seeking out partners. Attractiveness, compatibility, communication, and character are crucial in finding a mate, but what other things can help in finding that perfect partner?

Finding a Mate in the Seven C’s by John O. Taylor is wonderfully written and will speak to the hearts of many readers. I loved the diverse themes covered, which were practical, relatable, and covered many issues that are currently affecting society. Many readers will appreciate how motivating these messages are. The exercises provided at the end of the chapters are precise and help bring many perspectives, hence making the book very effective in passing on the intended message. The narration was also excellent, which added to the overall beauty of the book. Taylor also ensured the language used was easy to understand, which made the work accessible to all kinds of readers. This was an amazing read, and I look forward to something else by this author.

Nino Lobiladze

Finding a Mate in the 7 C's by John O. Taylor is an engaging and thorough guidebook for those searching for significant others and fans of motivational non-fiction and self-help literature. Losing a partner to divorce or death is hard and painful. After a breakup, we often feel discouraged and lost. This book presents seven principles that help us find the right partner or improve our relationship. The author calls these principles Competency, Chemistry, Compatibility, Communication, Character, Casting the Net, and Commitment. Taylor explores each of them in detail and supports his arguments with examples from his personal experience. The book offers practical recommendations regarding self-development and the intricate skill of online dating, among other key aspects of building a successful relationship with a meaningful mate.

In Finding a Mate in the 7 C's, John O. Taylor shares profound thoughts and touching stories. Memoir lovers will appreciate this book and enjoy Taylor's recollections of his parents and younger years. The author earnestly explains the roles of our upbringing and background in our personality development and decision-making. Taylor encourages us to look deeper into ourselves and asks pertinent questions at the end of the chapters. Taylor's honesty makes the book reliable, and his deep Christian faith shines through. Dating is stressful for many of us, so Taylor inspires us to look at it from a different point of view. The author warns us about the pitfalls we may overlook, like starting another serious relationship too early after a breakup. Among other useful topics, this book studies forgiveness and resolving conflicts. The book shows us the way to a better future with someone special, and I highly recommend it.