It's What Makes Me . . . Me

A Retired Attorney's Relationship with Life and Times

Non-Fiction - Autobiography
305 Pages
Reviewed on 07/25/2024
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Author Biography

Mark lives with his wife Loren and their dog Emily in Denver, Colorado. He practiced commercial bankruptcy law for almost forty years before moving on in 2019 to write, volunteer, travel, and play music. In addition to “It’s What Makes Me . . . Me,” he is the author of four books in his best-selling, award-winning 3J Legal Thriller Series, and "And . . Just Like That - essays on a life before, during, and after the law" (a memoir of a not famous lawyer).

    Book Review

Reviewed by Jamie Michele for Readers' Favorite

Mark Shaiken's autobiography It's What Makes Me . . . Me spans various facets of his life and career, discussing personal and professional experiences and issues, from maneuvering through individuality and societal expectations to juggling a dual career as an indie author and attorney. Shaiken candidly reflects on childhood struggles in Queens and New Haven, confronting things like bullying and social integration. He speaks on passions such as photography and music, sharing with us how these pursuits shaped his personal and professional identity. He also shares his own imaginings, like joining Bruce Springsteen's E Street Band, although he acknowledges Springsteen does not need him. Despite this, Shaiken continues to find happiness in writing songs and playing guitar. Throughout his work, the author leans toward the power of resilience, drawing on experiences from his legal practice and creative endeavors to underscore themes of growth and acceptance.

Mark Shaiken does an excellent job of showing readers his authentic voice in It's What Makes Me . . . Me, which, given the title of this memoir, is fitting. What's interesting is that part of Shaiken's growth comes in the form of his understanding that just because he must be true to himself, it does not mean at the expense of those around him. The memoir portrays his actual personal growth and a reflective journey over time, showing an evolution in thinking and behavior. For example, Shaiken discusses his writing and, in one instance, particularly in terms of filtering his thoughts and considering the impact of his words on others. As a reader over a certain age, I most appreciated Shaiken's unflinching honesty about the challenges and realities of aging, contrasting sharply with societal platitudes about the "golden years." His candid reflections resonate deeply with readers like myself who also struggle with similar issues, and I found nuggets of camaraderie in the raw truth expressed. Overall, a personal, relatable, and well-written memoir. Recommended.

Pikasho Deka

Mark Shaiken enthralls readers with this captivating collection of essays, personal anecdotes, and poems, drawing upon his own experiences in life. It's What Makes Me... Me takes readers on a journey through Mark's life, from his childhood to his bankruptcy law career, and now, his next phase as a writer, trying to navigate the trials and tribulations of old age. Mark recounts his younger years in the 1970s, growing up in a family that changed homes seven times in twelve years. From an early age, Mark found an affinity for music, photography, and baseball. The book delves into his experiences as an author after his law career, how he found his soulmate, his interest in The Rolling Stones and The Beatles, his stint as a Major League Soccer photographer during the pandemic, a visit to Japan, and much more.

With It's What Makes Me... Me, Mark Shaiken presents a vivid and colorful portrait of his life, with all the ups and downs, and everything in between. The book chronicles Mark's experiences at various phases of his life, featuring keen insights and observations on a broad spectrum of topics related to humanity and the changing times. The essays and personal anecdotes feel intimate and personal yet relatable to the reader. There is a chapter where Mark struggles to come to terms with new-age technology, such as cryptocurrency, and it beautifully showcases how the world has changed in the last few decades and how hard it is to keep up with the times. Shaiken's writing is engaging and immersive, and I found his observations deeply poignant and inspirational. Overall, this book will make you laugh, smile, contemplate, and introspect in equal measure. Highly recommended.

K.C. Finn

It's What Makes Me . . . Me is a work of non-fiction in the autobiographical writing, slice-of-life, and humor genres by author Mark Shaiken. This candid memoir is a deeply personal exploration of the author's life, reflecting on the experiences that have shaped him and his creative work over time. Written by a retired attorney and bestselling author, the memoir delves into the highs and lows, the humor and challenges, and the beauty and messiness of being human. Through thoughtful introspection, Shaiken shares his journey, inviting readers to laugh, reflect, and find resonance in the universal aspects of the lessons life has taught him.

Author Mark Shaiken has crafted a passionate work that foregrounds his openness and vulnerability in recounting his life's journey, which creates a strong emotional connection with his readership right from the start. His ability to blend humor with profound insights made the narrative both engaging and thought-provoking, and there’s a natural warmth to his storytelling style that makes it feel as if you’re having a heartfelt conversation with a close friend who has much wisdom to impart. The exploration of themes like aging, personal growth, and the intricacies of human relationships offers readers an honest piece of human connection that they can resonate with and reflect back on their own lives. Shaiken's candidness about his highs and lows offers a unique blend of introspection and storytelling that entertains but also prompts us to reflect on the factors that shape our own identities, and what life’s lessons may teach us too if we’re open to reflection. Overall, It's What Makes Me . . . Me is a moving and enriching read that I would highly recommend to memoir fans everywhere for its candor, warmth, and well-penned narration.